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By HELENA OLIVIERO
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
If watching CNN's "Crossfire" over candlelight sounds perfect for a
first date or the Republican National Convention is your idea of a
romantic getaway, you may want to check out a handful of fledgling
political online dating sites.
Mixing
online passion with politics first started in February with
Loveinwar.com as an offbeat — even wacky — spin on dating. And a few
weeks ago, RepublicanSingles.com and DemocraticSingles.com hit the Internet scene.
The sites bring dating and politics together like never before. This is
the first presidential race when online dating is mainstream — with two
of every five singles in the United States browsing Internet dating
sites at least once in 2003, according to Jupiter Research.
Traditionally,
the ballooning online dating industry largely steered away from
politics. Instead, niche Web sites targeted virtually everything else
that defines us: dog lovers, vegans, overweight singles, senior
singles, Christian singles — and the list goes on.
But if people can bond over their pets, why not over political discourse?
Nate
Elliott, an analyst with Jupiter Research who specializes in the online
market, said political online dating sites have all of the signs of
winning tickets — a new niche and savvy timing.
And some metro Atlanta singles, hoping to find that perfect running mate, also see the potential.
"Right
from the get-go, you have people who share a lot of your beliefs and
values," said 26-year-old Kelli Cook of Duluth, intrigued by the RepublicanSingles.com site.
Cook,
a member of the Gwinnett County Young Republicans, also is a staunch
supporter of the Iraq war. And she said a Web site catering to
Republicans would screen out those who are against the war.
"I think it would be very, very hard for me to be with someone who opposes the war," she said.
DemocraticSingles.com and RepublicanSingles.com are demure, with the latter boasting images of an eagle, the Statue of Liberty and the GOP.
"It makes sense to have niche sites where people feel at home," said Elliott.
Loveinwar
doesn't target party stalwarts but instead plays off a more irreverent
vibe — a place for political junkies who enjoy a lively debate —
regardless of where someone stands on the spectrum.
Loveinwar
conducts a casual tracking of singles' political views, asking singles
to fill out a mood gauge that ranges from "Clinton mellow" to "Dean
angry." Singles also are asked the "name of the soundtrack of their
revolution."
"This is a site for people who take their
politics seriously but don't take themselves too seriously," said
24-year-old Bryan Carlin, founder of Loveinwar.com. The Web site also
sells T-shirts that say, "Sharpton is my homeboy."
"It
seems like political discourse is left vs. right and the other side is
considered evil," said Carlin, who describes himself as an "ex-Democrat
wandering the political wilderness."
"I am tired of it, and I wanted to have more fun with it."
This
year, American singles are expected to spend $398 million on online
dating memberships, up from just $47 million in 2000.
"[Online
dating] is a cluttered marketplace," said Elliott, "and niche dating
sites take the market and break it down."
Tony
Sandoval, founder of RepublicanSingles.com and DemocratSingles.com, is
banking on the idea that many singles are attracted to others who share
their ideologies.
"Finding a mate who has the same ideals and values as you is a good first step," said Sandoval.
But what about the Libertarians? asks 42-year-old Charles Dean, a single technical writer who lives in Duluth.
"A
Libertarian online dating site — now, that is something I would
definitely be interested in," said Dean, also president of Atlanta
Single Hikers.
But Terri Leidich, founder and executive
director of Atlanta's Upscale Singles, a social group for singles 40 to
65, believes a political tone of online dating — of any kind — could be
a turnoff for many singles.
"For some singles, I think the
political sites would be too limiting," said Leidich of Atlanta. "As
one woman has said to me, 'There are two things you don't discuss when
you first start dating someone: politics and religion.' "
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